Who

Your Hosts
Sher Luv, $13Bill, Touch, Lady Frog
& other gracious co-hosts...
Our Guests

Our guests will likely include straight people, gay people, bi people, unlabeled people, philosophical people, pagans, atheists, nudists, artists, computer geeks and more. If you value diversity, you will love our community.

We especially welcome participants from

What

  • Dance, eat, drink, converse
    • any video gurus wanna run the projector/computer?
  • Share your stories, experiences, revelations
  • Swim in the pool, soak in the spa
  • Spin your fire, hula your hoops
  • Massage and cuddle
  • Express and Share Yourself!

When

  • Starts 12 noon, Saturday the 18th of June,
  • Ends 12 noon, Sunday the 19th of June.
  • Please join us for all or any part of this time.
  • You are also welcome to sleep over.

Where

Why

  • Fun and celebration!
  • Summer & Our Pool are Warming up!
  • Burning Man preparations are already beginning!
  • It's part of our Principles!

Sharing this invitation with your friends

  • Be sure they know it's an alternative, clothing-optional space.
  • Have them read this invite, especially the etiquette.
  • Introduce them around, clue them in.
  • If you don't plan to spend time with them, don't invite them!

We will provide

  • Bubbly and still bottled water
  • Plates, cups, napkins, cutlery
  • Spa and swimming pool
  • Whatever else inspires us

Things to bring

  • Yummy contributions for the several Potluck meals
  • Other favorite foods and beverages to share

More things you might bring

  • A towel for the spas and pools
  • Hat, sarong, sunscreen
  • Bedding for sleeping over
  • Tents and yurts - special campsite area at Kristen's
  • Hoops, poi, flags, firetoys, ...

Let us know in advance if you would like to

  • Help cook brunch on Sunday
  • Use our grill or kitchen to cook us some tucker
  • Reserve bedding rather than bringing your own
  • Take a shift at DJing
  • Assist with setup or teardown
  • Be a Party Monitor
  • Fulfill any other needs or ideas requiring preparation
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Pu'uhonua Etiquette & Guidelines

Bestowing our affections

  • Our community gatherings can be very loving and intimate
    • they are not occasions for open sexual expression.
  • Please check in with that other human,
    • at least with eye contact,
    before showering them with your physical affection.
  • If you are receiving unwanted attention
    • Speak up!
    • Get some support!
    • Don't suffer in silence!
  • If anyone is behaving inconsiderately:
    • Give them some loving feedback
  • If anything does not feel right:
    • Find a host or Party Monitor!
  • Please help keep Pu'uhonua a true place of refuge.

Costumes & Clothing are Optional!

  • Feel free to wear outrageous costumes or nothing at all.
  • Clothing is optional at Pu'uhonua except in view of the street.
  • Our natural state is not a come-on:
    • Please treat unclothed people with extra consideration!
  • You might want to bring or borrow a Sarong - they're very handy!.

Children are very welcome

  • They require your supervision!
  • Especially around the pool and spa!

People who won't be drinking

We need to know who is not yet 21 years old
and get their agreement to not drink alcohol at our party.

We support anyone's choice to not indulge;
Touch says he'll refrain from drinking in solidarity!

Parking

  • Please park on Verda and walk down the driveway.
  • It's OK to drop stuff down at the house first.

Matter Out Of Place

  • This is a leave no trace event!
  • Please help us reduce and eliminate MOOP!
  • Please clean up after yourself and others.
  • Please treat the street area the same.

If you sleep over, Friday or Saturday night:

  • Join us for a morning hot tub.
  • Enjoy breakfast - and maybe help prepare some?
  • Please help us with morning cleanup!

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